الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ

بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ ۚ

فَالصَّالِحَاتُ قَانِتَاتٌ

حَافِظَاتٌ لِّلْغَيْبِ بِمَا حَفِظَ اللَّهُ ۚ وَاللَّاتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا

CRITICAL REASONING:

So, O Muslim women,

Where you get the idea of ‘equality’ from?

Where you get the idea of ‘partner’ from?

From your Rabb, Allah?

From your Rasul, salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam

or

From the Kuffar?

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So, what Allah says here?

A man is IN CHARGE over his wife. 

Now, do you ever find a partner is in charge over another partner?

It’s not possible.

A person would never ever come into a partnership to become subordinate to his partner, to allow his partner to be in charge over him.

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And then what Allah, your Rabb says next?

A RIGHTEOUS woman is devoutly OBEDIENT.

Would you ever find a partner obedient to another partner?
It’s not possible.
And how would you know what is meant by OBEDIENT to husband?
You need to read this to get a proper understanding of that.

Two partners remain honest and mutually respectful but never you would find one partner is obedient to another partner, never you would find the term ‘obedient’ in a partnership.

So, where you get the idea of being ‘equal’ or ‘partner’ or ‘equal partner’ to your husband?

Unless only you take your DEEN from the Kuffar!
Unless you take your Deen from your Rabb, the UN!

O Muslim women, May Allah guide you!
May Allah, Al-Jabbar return you to your Deen.